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love is complicated

a life lived simply is the best?  is it?  I’m want to believe it because I often take the more challenging options in life and I often find myself suffering for it. I usually oppose the status quo. I’m queer, I work for a non-profit, I try to talk politics and money with strangers. I’m working for the freedoms conservatives try to take away:  access to birth control for women, access to safe abortion for women, affordable healthcare for the poor and middle classes, affordable housing options for low-income families and people struggling with homelessness. I’m against the status quo.  I want more love in our world. Empty the prisons, stop caging people of color and poor people, tax the rich and corporations, end tax giveaways to the oil industry that pollutes the earth, campaign finance reform so the 1% cant buy elections,  overturn citizen’s united, do not discriminate and instead have love for trans members of our world, have love for the poorest among us. Do not hide your money in off-shore accounts where you cant be taxed and therefore cannot give back to the country that birthed and reared you. Do not ship jobs overseas where labor is cheap and workers are exploited and abused.

Be kind, more gentle to one another, regardless of gender, race, religion, ethnic origin, sexual orientation, age, income level or political viewpoint. Do not judge each other by the clothes or adornments we wear, do not judge each other. seek to love each other first. In a world where we are taught to judge and compare, win or lose, succeed or fail, the job of loving first is very difficult. We must help each other to love more and hate much much less.

A simple life forgets how complicated our world is, how diverse it is, how different our backgrounds are. We live in complicated times and we must embrace this. It is not enough to have an equal society anymore, we must strive to be an equitable one. An equitable world understands that life is diverse, people are diverse. We all come to adulthood by very different paths and circumstances. An equitable world view recognizes the difference in our backgrounds, our cultures, our religions and chooses to acknowledge and accept difference instead of presuming we have the same backgrounds and will reach the same conclusions, and take the same actions in the face of conflict or in the time of decision. We are all different and we all contribute in valuable ways. The more we open up and allow this diversity of culture, of class, of race, of gender to exist and to thrive the more perfect and complete our world will be. The more we can learn from one another, the more our world will progress as the brilliant, diverse, resilient, complicated place that it is. Choose the complicated path in life. It will not be easy, but in the end, the experience will be rich, beautiful and enlightening.  Love many people everyday.